Written By Lesallan – September 16, 2023
What does it mean to live life drug-free and a single male in 2023?
Written By Lesallan – September 16, 2023
This is a question that many people may ask themselves, especially in a world where drugs are widely available and often normalized. In this blog post, I will share my personal experience and perspective on living life drug-free as a single male in 2023.
First, let me clarify what I mean by drug-free. I do not consume any substances that alter my mood, perception, or cognition, such as cannabis, psychedelics, stimulants, opioids, or sedatives. I also “do not avoid caffeine, sugar, and/or other processed foods.” I do this not because I have a moral or religious objection to drugs, but because I value my health, well-being, and clarity of mind.
Secondly, let me explain what I mean by a single male. I do not have a romantic partner, nor do I actively seek one. I also do not engage in casual sex or hookups. I do this not because I have a fear of commitment or intimacy, but because I enjoy my independence, freedom, and solitude.
Living life drug-free as a single male in 2023 is not easy, but it is rewarding. Here are some of the benefits and challenges that I have experienced: I have more energy, focus and creativity. Without drugs, I can wake up early, work efficiently and pursue my passions. I can also learn new things, explore new places, and meet new people without any distractions or impairments. I have more self-confidence, self-respect, and self-love. Without drugs, I can face my emotions, thoughts, and problems without escaping or numbing them. I can also accept, appreciate, and improve myself without relying on external validation or approval.
I have more money, time, and opportunities. Without drugs, I can save money, invest money, and spend money wisely. I can also use my time productively, meaningfully, and enjoyably. I can also seize opportunities that come my way without hesitation or regret.
Challenges:
I face more social pressure, stigma, and isolation. Without drugs, I often feel out of place, misunderstood, or rejected by others who use drugs or expect me to use drugs. I also have fewer friends, acquaintances, and connections who share my lifestyle or values.
I face more boredom, loneliness, and temptation. Without drugs, I sometimes feel bored, lonely, or empty without any stimulation or excitement. I also feel tempted to use drugs when I see others using them or when I encounter stressful or difficult situations.
I face more uncertainty, insecurity, and anxiety. Without drugs, I have to deal with the uncertainty, insecurity, and anxiety that comes with living in a complex and chaotic world. I also have to cope with the existential questions and doubts that arise from being a single male in a society that values relationships and family.
Despite these challenges, I choose to live life drug-free as a single male in 2023 because it aligns with my goals, values, and vision. It may not be the right choice for everyone, but it is the right choice for me. It may not be an easy choice, but it is a fulfilling choice.
What does it mean to you to live life drug-free and a single male in 2023? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.
The last thought is, why did God give man a helpmate?
According to the Bible, why did God give man a helpmate?
This is a question that many people have asked, especially in relation to the roles and responsibilities of men and women in marriage and society. The answer can be found in the book of Genesis, where we read the account of God’s creation of human beings.
In Genesis 1:26-28, we see that God created man and woman in His own image and likeness and gave them dominion over the earth and all living creatures. He also blessed them and told them to be fruitful and multiply. This shows that God’s original intention for human beings was to reflect His glory, rule over His creation, and fill the earth with His image-bearers.
However, in Genesis 2:18-25, we see that God made a special provision for the man alone in the garden of Eden. God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Then God brought all the animals to the man, but none of them was a suitable companion for him. So God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, took one of his ribs, and made a woman out of it. He then brought her to the man, who said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
From this passage, we can learn several things about why God gave man a helpmate:
First, God gave man a helpmate because he saw that it was not good for him to be alone. God knew that man needed a companion who would share his life, his joys, his sorrows, his work, and his worship. God also knew that man needed a partner who would complement him in his strengths and weaknesses, and help him fulfill his calling and purpose.
Second, God gave man a helpmate who was fit for him. The word “helper” in Hebrew does not imply inferiority or subordination, but rather someone who provides assistance or support. The same word is used to describe God Himself as the helper of His people (Psalm 121:2). The word “fit” means corresponding to or suitable for. The woman was not identical to the man, but different from him in a way that matched him perfectly. She was his dignity and value equal but distinct in role and function.
Third, God gave man a helpmate who was from him. The woman was not created from the dust of the ground like the man, but from his own flesh and bone. This signifies that she was intimately related to him, and that they shared a common origin and nature. She was not a foreign or alien being, but one who belonged to him and with him. She was also made for him, as a gift from God to meet his need and complete his being.
Fourth, God gave man a helpmate who was with him. The woman was not only brought to the man by God, but also joined to him in a covenant relationship. The man recognized her as his own, and gave her a name that expressed their unity. He also left his parents and cleaved to his wife, forming a new family unit. They became one flesh, which implies not only sexual intimacy, but also emotional, intellectual, and spiritual intimacy.
In summary, God gave man a helpmate because He wanted him to have a companion who would be his equal, his counterpart, his partner, and his lover. He wanted them to work together as a team to fulfill His mandate of stewardship and procreation. He wanted them to enjoy each other’s company and friendship. He wanted them to reflect His image and glory as male and female.
Therefore, we can say that God’s design for marriage is based on His wisdom and love. He created man and woman to complement each other and complete each other. He ordained marriage to be a lifelong bond of mutual respect, affection, loyalty, and faithfulness. He intended marriage to be a source of blessing, joy, peace, and fulfillment for both husband and wife.
Written By Lesallan – September 16, 2023
