Personal History and Conflict Perspectives

Lesallan

Ohio Christian University

Personal History and Conflict Perspectives

Lesallan

Ohio Christian University

Aurora, MO

May 28, 2025

Personal History and Conflict Perspectives

Conflict is not simply an external event, but a tapestry woven from early experiences, cultural heritage, and social influences. My objective—to explore how personal history, worldview, and culture affect conflict perspectives—has guided me to reflect deeply on the formative events that have shaped my approach to conflict (Lesallan, 2025).

Growing up, my experiences with conflict were often subtle yet impactful. In my household and at school, disagreements were common; however, they were not solely characterized by confrontation. Many of these early conflicts became opportunities for learning, negotiation, and resilience-building. These formative episodes instilled in me a sense of caution mixed with a desire to understand the underlying issues rather than merely reacting to surface disagreements (Lesallan, 2025).

As I transitioned into adulthood, my views on conflict underwent considerable evolution. The confrontations of my youth, once seen as insurmountable disturbances to harmony, gradually transformed into complex situations that could foster growth when handled constructively. This change did not occur overnight; rather, it emerged from years of reflective practice, professional experiences, and personal interactions that highlighted the value of balanced dialogue and empathetic listening (Lesallan, 2025).

Gender has played a noteworthy role in shaping my approach to conflict. Social expectations and traditional roles have subtly influenced how I respond in challenging situations. For example, growing up, I was sometimes encouraged to prioritize relational harmony—a tendency that initially led me to avoid direct confrontation. Now, as an adult, I strive to balance empathy with assertiveness, finding that a collaborative approach can be both respectful and effective when managing disputes (Lesallan, 2025).

Similarly, my cultural heritage and the community in which I was raised have also left an indelible mark on my conflict style. I come from a cultural background that values community, respect, and the preservation of interpersonal relationships. This cultural framework taught me to view conflict not merely as a threat but as an opportunity for mutual understanding and growth. The emphasis on collective well-being has encouraged me to seek resolutions that honor both individual perspectives and communal interests (Lesallan, 2025).

In summary, my journey from a conflicted childhood to a reflective adulthood is a clear reminder that personal history, gender, and cultural roots significantly influence one’s approach to conflict. This evolving perspective enables me to view conflict as a complex interplay of emotions, experiences, and cultural narratives—a perspective that continues to shape my relationships and decision-making processes (Lesallan, 2025).

Blessings,

Lesallan

References:

Lesallan. (2025). Our personal history discussion: Exploring how personal history influences

conflict perspectives [Unpublished class discussion post].